Sunday, July 10

Did you know?

There are a lot of facts which is really good for us to know. infact it's true that we know lesser things than most of the facts out there. its always interesting to know some facts, useful or not! So here are some facts that you might not be aware of.

Did you know?


/hmm A piece of normal-size paper cannot be folded in half more than 7 times.

/sweat Coffee drinkers have more sex than non-coffee drinkers.  They also enjoy it more.

/blur Blueberry juice boosts memory

/nobigdeal we forget 95% of our dreams

/XD When cats are happy or pleased, they squeeze their eyes shut

/shock If you keep a Goldfish in the dark room, it will eventually turn white

/sweat On average, people fear spiders more than they do death.

/blush Cold showers stimulate your sex drive

/hmm Human eye detects 10 million colors

/blush Kissing helps prevent tooth decay

/blush During good sex, endorphins are released, which are powerful painkillers. So headaches are in fact a bad excuse not to have sex

/blush Kissing is healthier than shaking hands

/no You cannot kill yourself by holding your breath.

/omg If you try to suppress a sneeze, you can rupture a blood vessel in your head or neck and die.

/omg People say "Bless you" when you sneeze because when you sneeze, your heart stops for a millisecond.

/no Wearing headphones for just an hour will increase the bacteria in your ear by 700 times.

/hmm The most common name in the world is Mohammed.

/hmm Rats multiply so quickly that in 18 months, two rats could have over million descendants.

/nobigdeal The African cicada fly spends 17 years sleeping, then wakes up for two weeks, mates and then die.

 /hmm Butterflies smell with their feet

/hmm A snail can sleep for three years

/hmm Ants never sleep

/hmm It is physically impossible for pigs to look up into the sky.

/hmm An olive tree can live up to 1500 years

/hmm If you are right handed, you will tend to chew food on your right side. If you are left handed, you likely to chew food on your left side

/hmm Chewing gum while peeling onions will reduce your tears

:) India never invaded any country in her history

/blur If a statue of a person in the park on a horse has both front legs in the air, the person died in battle If the horse has one front leg in the air, the person died as a result of wounds received in battle.  If the horse has all four legs on the ground, the person died of natural causes.

/nobigdeal There are 86,400 seconds in day

/hmm Each king in a deck of playing cards represents great king from history. Spades - King David Clubs - Alexander the Great, Hearts - Charlemagne Diamonds - Julius Caesar.

/hmm Registered in 1985, symbolics.com is the first ever internet domain registered

/hmm 111,111,111 x 111,111,111 = 12,345,678,987,654,321

/hmm Red wine will spoil if exposed to light; hence tinted bottles

/nobigdeal Gamblers mostly don't see any clocks in Las Vegas gambling casinos

/floor Charlie Chaplin once won third prize in a Charlie Chaplin look-alike contest

/hmm you cannot hum if you block your nose completely.

/hmm Natural pearls melt in vinegar

/blush Licorice (or liquorice) and avocado are among the food that sets the mood for love making

/blush The tongue is the only body muscle that is attached from one end only.  (Please don't send me corrections to add the penis; the penis is not a muscle).


What more do you know??

Saturday, July 9

Ways To Increase your Brain Power

To have a more developed brain always helps us with better analytical skills, knowledge, understanding and helps us to lead a better life. Also it can give you an edge over others. There are different ways to develop brain power.


Ways to increase your brain power

Reading: Reading knowledge based books will not only increase your brain power but also increase your Brain power. As you read more related to knowledge like general knowledge, science & encyclopedias, including life facts, you will start loving it and hence helps in increasing the brain power.

Positive thinking: Thinking positively will help to deal problems more effectively and hence our thinking base and brain power will increase to much extend.

Eating: Eat different foods that will help increase brain power. The food that helps in increasing brain power are whole grain foods, strawberries, blueberries, almonds, cashews, walnuts, green tea, eggs, red cabbage, tomatoes, spinach, broccoli. These foods not only increase brain power but also increase memory power.

Challenging Tasks: Take up tasks those are challenging rather than simple ones. these will gradually helps in developing brain power. Unlike other people who like doing normal work, you taking up challenging work can make you more open to ideas and hence become more advanced than the rest of the crowd.

Teaching: Teaching someone can also increase brain power as you are sharing your ideas and hence your thought process will search for more innovative ideas to express your knowledge.

Discussions:
Participate in discussions or simply discuss the ideas with your friends. This will help in developing your ideas and hence developing your brain power.

Exploring: Try exploring yourself for answers to the questions. You can search for answers by reading or searching on the internet rather than asking someone. This activity will not only help you increasing your brain and memory power but will also helps you to gain better knowledge and understanding.

I Love You in Different Languages

Even though the meaning is one, people say this in different languages.  Have you ever wondered what I Love you in different languages might be?

I Love You In Different Languages

English - I love you

2. Latin - Te amo

3. Malayalam - Njan Ninne Snehikunnu

4. Hindi - Main tumse muhabbat karta hoon

5. Punjabi - Main tainu pyar karna

6. Bengali - Aami tomaake bhaalo baashi

7. Gujarati - Tane Prem Karoo Choo

8. Tamil - Naan Unnai Kadhalikiren

9. Telugu - Nenu Ninnu Premisthunnanu

10. Sri Lankan - Mama oyata arderyi

11. French - Je t'aime

12. German - Ich liebe dich

13. Arabic - Ana ahebik

14. Turkish - Seni seviyorum

15. Kurdish - Ez te hezdikhem

16. Lebanese - Bahibak

17. Japanese - Kimi o ai shiteru

18. Chinese - Ngo oi ney

19. Mandarin - Wo ai ni

20. Taiwanese - Gwa ai lee

21. Korean - Dangsinul saranghee yo

22. Cambodian - Kh'nhaum soro'lahn nhee'ah

23. Hmong - Kuv Hlub Koj

24. Laon - Khoi hak jao

25. Filipino - Mahal ka ta

26. Malay - Saya cinta pada mu

27. Thai - Chan raak ther

28. Indonesian - Saya cinta padamu

29. Javanese - Aku terno kowe

30. Burmese - Chit pa te

31. Bisaya - Nahigugma ko nimo

32. Kapangpangan - Kaluguran daka

33. Farsi - Tora dost daram

34. Bavarian - I mog di narrisch gern

35. Swiss-German - Ch'ha di ga"rn

36. Spanish - Te adoro

37. Madrid lingo - Me molas, tronca

38. Basque - Nere maitea

39. Catalan - T'estim

40. Esperanto - Mi amas vin

41. Creole - Mi aime jou

42. Lojban - mi do prami

43. Portuguese - Eu amo te

44. Italian - Ti amo

45. Greek - S'ayapo

46. Macedonian - Te ljubam

47. Albanian - Te dua

48. Dutch - Ik hou van je

49. Flemish - Ik zie oe geerne

50. Vlaams - Ik hou van jou

51. Friesian - Ik bin fereale op dy

52. Luxembourgish - Ech hun dech ga 'r

53. Gaelic - Tha gaol agam ort

54. Welsh - Rwy'n dy garu di

55. Irish - Taim i' ngra leat

56. Maltese - Inhobbok

57. Icelandic - Eg elska thig

58. Greenlandic - Asavakit

59. Danish - Jeg elsker dig

60. Norwegian - Jeg elsker deg

61. Swedish - Jag a lskar dig

62. Finnish - rakastan sinua

63. Polish - Kocham cie

64. Hungarian - Szeretlek

65. Bulgarian - Obicham te

66. Romanian - Te iubesc

67. Yugoslavian - Ja te volim

68. Czech - Miluji te

69. Slovak - Lubim ta

70. Bosnian - Volim te

71. Croatian - Volim te

72. Serbian - Volim te

73. Russian - Ya tyebya lyublyu

74. Ukrainian - Ya tebe kokhayu

75. Estonian - Mina armastan sind

76. Latvian - Es tevi milu

77. Lithuanian - Tave myliu

78. Armenian - Yes kez si'rumem

79. Assyr - Az tha hijthmekem

80. Kazakh - Men seny jaksy kuremyn

81. Yiddish - Ikh hob dikh lib

82. Samoan - Ou te alofa outou

83. Berber - Lakh tirikh

84. Amharic - Afekrishalehou

85. Moroccan - Kanbhik

86. Tunisian - Ha eh bak

87. Somali - Waan ku gealahay

88. Kenyan - Aheri

89. Bolivian - Qanta munani

90. Ugandan - Nkwagala Nyo

91. Zulu - Mena tanda wena

92. Apache - Sheth she 'n zho 'n

93. Hausa - Ina sonki

94. Shona - Ndinokuda

95. Swahili - Nakupenda

96. Afrikaans - Ek is lief vir jou

97. Vulcan - Wani ra yana ro aisha

98. Tahitian - Ua here au ia oe

99. Hawaiian - Aloha wau ia oi

100. Brazilian - Eu te amo

101. Eskimo - Nagligivaget





Thursday, July 7

Surprise Gift For Your Partner


Thinking of giving a surprise gift to your partner. Well, then you might also be wondering as to what that might be. Here are some ideas which you can pick.This is Usually when you think you need to give something other than the physical gift items you can buy.

Surprise Gift For Your Partner

* Song Dedication: A song Dedication on TV/ Radio can be a nice starter.

* Outing: A trip to some Nice place without letting your partner know in advace can be exciting. You must try this at some point of time

* Long Drive To Some Exotic Places: This can be to some nice place far away from huge crowds. Also Dont for get to stop at some nice restaurants for some special time together.


* Candle Light/ moon Light Dinner: A nice candle light dinner will ignite the love. It would be a better idea to give a bunch of flowers or a red rose at this point of time.


* Stay at a Theme hotel or resort : One day Stay at a theme hotel or a resort can work wonders.

Memorable Romantic Gifts for Your Partner


Its always confusing while choosing a gift for your partner. Its important that the gifts we choose should be memorable & should win your partners heart. You can take a quick look into these if you are having a tough ime choosing gifts for your partner.


Best Gifts for your Partner

* Greeting Cards: This is traditionally the best gift.

* Paintings: Painting of your partner can be of a real experience for your partner. You can also go for other modern arts & paintings.

* Decors: Other Stuffs with your names embedded like a coffee mug, photo frames or even a keychain. Having your names embedded or pictures printed on the gifts can make a real touch of perfectness.

* Soft Toys: Soft toys are always a good choice because most of us likes soft toys especially when its given by someone you love. Even a soft pillow with a heart shape is an nice choice.

* Accessories:  Accessories like watch, purse/wallet, sunglasses or even a trendy mobile phone(if you have a better budget) will be of great impact.

After all giving a gift is one of the best ways to express love. So all The best gift picking.

Tips To Get Over A Broken Heart


A Broken heart is one of the most toughest challenge to overcome. After a break up, you might feel like the end of the life, depending on how deeply involved you were with your partner. This page cannot do wonders in getting you back to life, but can surely help you to do so.

How To Overcome a Broken Heart



Accept It: Its Over & accept it. Try not thinking the other way that the relation is still alive.


No Hangover: Once you accept its over, break all contacts with your ex. No missed calls/ msgs. Do not dedicate songs to your ex or listen to their favorite songs intentionally. Don't sit in front of their facebook pages

Socialize: Get Along with your friends or try the idea of making new friends even though your mind is not that active.

No Sad Songs: Songs have a great impact on human emotions & hence listening to sad songs at this point of time will let your mind really down. So avoid sad songs instead try listening to an upbeat, fun songs. This will surely help you crack the shell


Don't stay Lonely:   Don't be alone try involving in something which can be work, games, movies or any thing that gets you involved. Being around your friends can actually create magic in overcoming a broken heart.


Memories on Sleep Mode:  Its impossible to erase memories because we are humans( unless gets some disease of memory loss) but try not to remember about the past & all its sweet memories. It will be hard but lock all your memories. When ever you go into the past memories, intentionally change your thought process.

Time Heals : The most important, there is no wound that time cannot heal. Initially flow with the time & things will get along nicely. So cry, bang your head, avoid food, do everything possible when the wound is fresh, but when time passes by it will heal everything.

Remembering all these will definitely help your to overcome a break up, not overnight, but with some time.
May be after sometime, you might be coming back to this page because you might end up breaking with another partner. After all its all part of life.

Where to Go On a first Date

Places to Go On The First date.


Its natural to think as to what would be a better place to go for the first date. Now this mainly depends on your partners taste as to what they like. For eg: Movies, Nature, etc.
So it would be a great idea to know as to what your partner likes & what note on a casual note.

The Best Places to take a girl for a date (^_^)

  • A Concert
  • Cafe
  • The Beach
  • A Nice Lunch /Dinner

Places To Avoid For a First Date ("_")

  • Residence : A Complete No No For the first Time. It Creates a very bad impression & hence affect the relation on a long term.
  • Friends/ family Party : O'Cmmon. Privacy Does Matter
  • Movies: Nice Option but both will get involve in the movie & will have little time together





Wednesday, July 6

Love Calculator

Its Fun To Know the score, but don't take it heavily if the score comes less.After all We are the real players in scoring a better score!!







Sorry, you will need the <a href="http://www.macromedia.com/go/getflashplayer/" target="_blank">Flash Player</a> to play this game.

7 reason Why the world Will End before 2020


Many experts are predicting that the world will end in 2020! Some says that it will be humans who are going to set it off,
Others believe that a natural phenomenon will be the cause. And the religious folks are saying it'll be God himself who presses the stop button...
The main reason was the prediction of Mayan calender which is considered to be the most accurate calender ever because almost all of its early predictions have became real!!!
The main reason why it's here because the topic was interesting
Here are some reasons why the world will end in 2020, have a look then tell me what do you think!!

1)Mayan Calendar






The first mob to predict December 12, 2020 as the end of the world were the Mayans, a bloodthirsty race that were good at two things: Building highly accurate astrological equipment out of stone and Sacrificing Virgins.
Thousands of years ago they managed to calculate the length of the lunar moon as 329.53020 days, only 34 seconds out. The Mayan calendar predicts that the Earth will end on December 21, 2020. Given that they were pretty close to the mark with the lunar cycle, it's likely they've got the end of the world right as well. The worst part is that almost all of their predictions have came true.




2)Sun Storms



Solar experts from around the world monitoring the sun have made a startling discovery: our sun is in a bit of strife. The energy output of the sun is, like most things in nature, cyclic, and it's supposed to be in the middle of a period of relative stability. However, recent solar storms have been bombarding the Earth with so much radiation energy, it's been knocking out power grids and destroying satellites. This activity is predicted to get worse, and calculations suggest it'll reach its deadly peak sometime in 2020.


3)The Atom Smasher




Scientists in Europe have been building the world's largest particle accelerator. Basically its a 27km tunnel designed to smash atoms together to find out what makes the Universe tick. However, the mega-gadget has caused serious concern, with some scientists suggesting that it's properly even a bad idea to turn it on in the first place. They're predicting all manner of deadly results, including mini black holes. So when this machine is fired up for its first serious experiment in 2020, the world could be crushed into a super-dense blob the size of a basketball

4)The Bible




If having scientists warning us about the end of the world isn't bad enough,religious folks are getting in on the act as well. Interpretations of the Christian Bible reveal that the date for Armageddon, the final battle between Good an Evil, has been set down2020 for . The I Ching, also known as the Chinese book of Changes, says the same thing, as do various sections of the Hindu teachings.


5)Super Volcano





Yellowstone National Park in the United States is famous for its thermal springs and Old Faithful geyser. The reason for this is simple - it's sitting on top of the world's biggest volcano, and geological experts are beginning to get nervous sweats. The Yellowstone volcano has a pattern of erupting every 650,000 years or so, and we're many years overdue for an explosion that will fill the atmosphere with ash, blocking the sun and plunging the Earth into a frozen winter that could last up to 15,000 years. The pressure under the Yellowstone is building steadily, and geologists have set 2020 as a likely date for the big bang.

6)The Physicists





This one's case of bog-simple maths mathematics. Physicists at Berekely Uni have been crunching the numbers. and they've determined that the Earth is well overdue for a major catastrophic event. Even worse, they're claiming their calculations prove, that we're all going to die, very soon - while also saying their prediction comes with a certainty of 99 percent- and 2020just happens to be the best guess as to when it occurs.
7)Slip-Slop-Slap- BANG!




We all know the Earth is surrounded by a magnetic field that shields us from most of the sun's radiation.. What you might not know is that the magnetic poles we call north and south have a nasty habit of swapping places every 750,000 years or so - and right now we're about 30,000 years overdue. Scientists have noted that the poles are drifting apart roughly 20-30kms each year, much faster than ever before, which points to a pole-shift being right around the corner. While the pole shift is underway, the magnetic field is disrupted and will eventually disappear, sometimes for up to 100 years. The result is enough UV outdoors to crisp your skin in seconds, killing everything it touches.


Friday, June 24

Sun Sign dates

Sun Sign Zodiac signs are an important part of astrology and for most of the people, atleast once in a while we feel interested in checking our sun signs. Here is a Quick information regarding Sun signs / zodiac signs.

Sun signs 



Zodiac Sign Symbol Date Quick Characteristics
Aries
March 21 - April 19 Ambitious, Active, Demanding and Determined
Taurus
April 20 - May 20 Strength,Security, Subtle, Appreciation
Gemini
May 21 - June 20 Intelligent,Communicative, Indecision, Inquisitive,  Adaptable
Cancer
June 21 - July 22 Emotion, Diplomatic, Intensity, Impulsive, Selective
Leo
July 23 - August 22 Dominant, Warmth, Generous, Faithful, Initiative
Virgo
August 23 - September 22 Analyzing, Practical, Reflective, Observation, Thoughtful
Libra
September 23 - October 22 Balance, Justice, Truth, Beauty, Perfection
Scorpio
October 23 - November 21 Transient, Self-Willed, Purposeful, Unyielding
Sagittarius
November 22 - December 21 Philosophical, Motion, Experimentation, Optimism
Capricorn
December 22 - January 19 Determination, Dominance,  Practical, Willful
Aquarius
January 20 - February 18 Wise, Humanitarian, Serious, Insightful, Duplicitous
Pisces
February 19 - March 20 Fluctuation, Depth, Imagination, Reactive, Indecisive




Sunday, June 12

More About Proteins

Most of us know that proteins are good for us, but any idea as to what are the advantages and disadvantages of it and where you can find it? Proteins are essential for our body at all stages, for growth, strength, healing and more.

More about Proteins

Advantages: Protein helps in building, maintaining and restoring muscles. It's responsible for healthy blood cells, key enzymes and strengthening the immune system. It also helps to heal faster and aids in growth of a person, especially kids.


Disadvantages: Not much though, two things which needs to be kept in mind are not to over have protiens with the help of supplements and In order to build muscle, protein must be consumed with enough carbohydrate calories to provide the body with energy. Otherwise your body will tap into the protein for energy which might not be a good option for the body.


Where to Find it?


Animals: 
  • Fish, crab, lobster, oysters, prawns
  • Poultry and other meat
  • milk, cottage cheese, yogurt, cheese
  • Eggs
Vegetables
  • Grains & Cereals
  • Nuts & seeds
  • Legumes like beans, peas, lentils, soybeans
Quantity
 
 You should have atleast 0.8g per kilo of your body weight per day. Now taking a quantity of say 4 ounces, which might come up to your average consumption, the proteins that can be found is as follows.
  •  Fish :40g
  • Chicken  : 35g
  • Meat: 30-35g
  • Cheese cup: 28g
  • milk cup: 8g
  • Most Other plant protiens comes less that this.
 Types of Proteins

Whey :Whey protein is rapidly absorbed helping to induce muscle-protein synthesis following a training session
Casein:  Casein protein is slowly absorbed providing a long steady flow of amino acids, helping to prevent muscle-protein degradation

You can find these in protein supplements as well. You should always try to combine the food like Grains/cereals and legumes/meat (rice/bread and beans/meat) Grains and diary (Oatmeal & milk) to make it a complete meal and hence you get the complete benifit of proteins. 
You can also read here how to heal injuries faster with food:  Foods to Heal Injuries Faster

 
 
 

Tuesday, May 17

Clever things to know

 There are some things which is better to know. Here are some of the good to know things, may be you might find it handy in the day to day life! 

Clever things to know
 .................................................................................................................................................................
Take bananas apart, if you leave them connected at the stem, they ripen faster.
Add garlic immediately to a recipe if you want a light taste of garlic,
and at the end of the recipe if you want a stronger taste of garlic.
To really make scrambled eggs or omelets rich add a couple of  spoonfuls
of sour cream, cream cheese, or heavy cream in and then beat them up.
While Reheating pizza, heat it in a nonstick pan on top of the stove, with med-low heat and heat till warm.
This keeps the crust crispy.
Before you pour sticky substances into a measuring cup, fill with hot water.
pour out hot water, but don't dry cup and
then add your ingredient, such as butter,
and watch how easily it comes right out.
If you realize that you forgot to include something in an envelope  after sealing it,then just place your sealed envelope in the freezer for almost an hour.Don't worry, your letter won't get wet because the new refrigerators are non frosty!It unseals easily.
To get rid of pesky fruit flies, take a small glass,fill it 1/2 inch with Apple Cider Vinegar and2 drops of dish washing liquid;
mix well.
You will find those flies drawn to the cup and gone forever!
Peppers (Capsicum) with 3 bumps on the bottom are sweeter and better for eating.
Peppers with 4 bumps on the bottom are firmer and better for cooking.
Store your opened chunks of cheese in aluminum foil.
It will stay fresh much longer and not mold.




Monday, May 16

Tongue Twisters

Tongue twisters are interesting and also comes handy when there are some games or even if even you are among your friends and see how they say these tongue twisters. Practicing tongue twisters helps in better pronunciation & also we can pronounce a different language better. 

Tongue Twisters
Tongue Twisters tongue twisters tongue twisters tongue twisters tongue twisters tongue twisters tongue twisters tongue twisters tongue twisters tongue twisters 


* She sells sea shells on the sea shore. The shells that she sells are sea shells I'm sure.

* I wish to wish the wish you wish to wish, but if you wish the wish the witch wishes, I won't wish the wish you wish to wish.

* If two witches were watching two watches, which witch would watch which watch?

* Red bulb Blue bulb, Red bulb  Blue bulb, Red bulb blue Buld

* Purple Paper People, Purple Paper People, Purple Paper People.

* A sailor went to sea to see, what he could see. And all he could see was sea, sea, sea.

* If you understand, say "understand". If you don't understand, say "don't understand". But if you understand and say "don't understand". How do I understand that you understand? Understand!

* Nine nice night nurses nursing nicely.

* If you tell Tom to tell a tongue-twister his tongue will be twisted as tongue-twister twists tongues.

* Whether the weather is hot or whether the weather is cold. Whether the weather is either or not, It is whether we like it or not.

* Mr. Outside answered Mr. Inside from inside and Told Mr. Inside to come inside. Mr. Inside said "NO", and told Mr. Outside to come outside.

* Mr. Outside and Mr. Inside argued from inside and outside about going outside or coming inside. Finally, Mr. Outside coaxed Mr. Inside to come inside then both Mr. Outside and Mr. Inside went outside to the riverside.

*  I thought a thought but the thought I thought wasn't the thought I thought. I thought if the thought I thought had been the thought I thought, I wouldn't have thought so much.

* We surely shall see the sun shine shortly. Whether the weather be fine, or whether the weather be not, Whether the weather be cold Or whether the weather be hot, We'll weather the weather Whatever the weather, Whether we like it or not.

*  Mr. See owned a saw and Mr. Soar owned a seesaw. Now See's saw sawed Soar's seesaw Before Soar saw See, Which made Soar sore. Had Soar seen See's saw Before See sawed Soar's seesaw; See's saw would not have sawed Soar's seesaw. So See's saw sawed Soar's seesaw. But it was sad to see Soar so sore just because See's saw sawed Soar's seesaw.


Tuesday, November 3

Tips for a successful dating

When we think about going for a date, there are many things we should know so as to make the date a success.

Planning

Plan before you go. It's better to keep the first date a short one for 2-3hrs. If you and your date find things of common interest you can always extend it. Choose a dating activity that will make your communication easier, like visiting a restaurant or amusement park, going for a walk, playing pool or bowling. If you can do some activity or make the moment memorable, it will be a perfect date.

Outfit

Wear clothes that are appropriate to the meeting, you have planned. Also, it's a good idea to agree on the dress code with your dating partner. Be clean, smell nice. Don't let your outfit and hygiene ruin your dating plans.
On time

Be on time atleast for the first time, otherwise it will definitely cause a bad impression. Even five minutes of lateness is unacceptable on the first date.
Do not bring friends

Taking friends to your date will make you look immature and insecure. You are an adult person so it is not necessary to bring someone to keep you. If you are concerned about safety, meet your date in a public place.
Compliments

Give compliments, but don't over do it. A few nice words will put your dating partner at ease and get him or her to relax. People love to hear how wonderful they are. However, overdoing it might them think you are insincere or make them feel uncomfortable.
Talking and listening

You should keep a balance between talking & listening. Give your date a chance to talk. There is nothing worse then a person that talks about self all the time. Take time to hear what the person you are with is saying. Every good communication is based on listening.
Eye Contact:

Eye contact is an important nonverbal form of communication and helps in connecting with other people, so use it on your first date. It tells your dating partner you are interested.
Lively conversations

Silence will be the worst thing in coversation. Too much time spent in silence during a date is a real torture and your dating partner will be bored. Date should be fun. So, ask them questions, tell them a funny adventure you had, talk about things of your common interest.
Never talk about past relationships

Don't even think about talk about your ex, it' will be the biggest turn-off if you do. infact, don't mention anyone of the opposite sex. Concentrate on the person you are with, and see if you can get to the second date.
Don't check out other people

It's advisable never look at other people when you are on a date. It makes the same effect as talking about your past relationships, but much worse. Especially when a guy checking out other girls.
Be yourself

Don't pretend to be someone you are not. If you plan to continue seeing this person, the real you will come out eventually. Find someone who wants you for you, not for who you are pretending to be.
Remember, it's just a date

Remember that the date should be fun. It's ok to get excited when you go out with someone new, but stay realistic. If your expectations are too high, you could be disappointed at the end. First date is all about the possibility, not pressure.

Break up Tips


You had a break up & feels like shattered & broken. Well, then these tips might help you in this situation. Or else you can keep this in mind in case if you have a similar situation in the future.


Blast out:
Cry like anything. Just allow your emotions to flow out. Tell your friends for the 10th time how he worshiped the adorable curl of your upper lip. If you don't let your emotions out, they'll fester inside, and so will the louse's memory. So allow yourself one last good wallow. Then stop. Need some affection? Get a substitute object to cuddle. A cute puppy can go a long way toward helping you forget a guy who was a dog.

Retrain your heart.:
You will truly forget your ex once you can literally see him in a new, hunk-free light. It's called creative visualization -- imagining scenes that you want to happen. Close your eyes and remember negative images, like when he had food dribbling off his chin. Racked with rage at his callous behavior? In your mind's eye (only in your mind's eye) make him walk the plank. That should harmlessly blast away those energy-sapping, venomous emotions

Socializing:
You might not want to go out & be with others, but this is a great way to relieve your heart from the stress & if you are among others, you will slowly move forward in life.

Contacting your Ex:

Try not to contact your ex, because it will only increase the pain in you.

Feels Like Still In love with your Ex:

Many of you feel that way. Unless you come out of that, you cannot form a new healthy relationship. It's is like cutting the umbilical cord, Cut it forever and move on in life.

Socializing & online discussions:
Yes, they are a great place to share your grief with all your friends. It is difficult to handle the grief of breaking up alone or even with a counselor at times. Talk to as many people as possible and drain away your grief. Make them share your pain as much as you can.

Dating someone again
I still think of my ex and am afraid of getting hurt again. Such questions are common after a break-up. Give yourself some time after a break-up. Don’t think of dating for a while. Pamper yourself and bring peace in your mind. Indulge in your hobbies. After you feel more comfortable with yourself, think of dating again.

Closing the doors:
Don't fall into yo-yo love. Let it be over. If he keeps calling to say you should give it one more chance, or that he has someone new but wants to stay friends, don't bite. Cut him loose and celebrate the new, improved, I won't-settle-for-anything-less-than-a-great-guy you.

Forget it:
Forgetting the relationship after a break-up is difficult. Our mind tends to go back and analyze, but that gives more pain. One should just drop the whole period of relationship from the mind. As if it never existed. Sounds difficult, but if you try it, you can do.