Tuesday, August 9

Best ways to make friends

Friendship is the most important part of our lives & its human tendency to make friends. Now there are many things which we need to remember for making friends.Keeping these in mid will not only help you in getting more friends but also leaves a better impression about you amongst others. Find out the best ways to make friends

Socialize: Start socializing. Join a club, sports team or dance classes. Also a church, synagogue, or other house of worship is a good place to start if you prefer a religious faith in common. Social networking sites like facebook and Orkut also provides platform for making friends online who are near you location.


Start Talking: Even if you join a club or dance classes, you might not end up making friends unless you start talking to people. You can talk to anyone and remember most conversation will reach a dead end if you don't talk. Don't think twice before talking to someone because humans are social animals and loves talking!

Attitude: Your attitude also plays an important part in a making friends. Don't ever speak High of yourself in front of others.  Always keep a warm smile on your face and make eye contact while talking. If you have a boring attitude with eye contacts, people won't refer talking to you much.

Conversation: Always start a conversation  which can be anything from a small compliment, to something about surroundings or weather, or may be an simple opinion. Always remember not to stop the talk there. Continue those with a follow up talk like "which route would you prefer to go to that place" or "where did you get those from?" . Also Start small talks and remember to listen more rather than talk more.


Introduction: Always try introducing yourself at the end of the conversation. If you introduce yourself, the other person will also introduce themselves to you. 

Good Listener: Always try to be a good listener rather than talking a lot. Even though your intentions are to show amazing f yourself, it might not work out, instead listen carefully to what others are taking about and keep the small details in mind and build up conversation by followup questions.

Know Your Limits: Don't force people into friendship. Also never crib about not inviting you for a party or stop by their house uninvited. Also avoid making a lot of unwanted calls. Also try to learn the signs and if the other person is showing signs to leave, just leave rather than overstaying.

Your Character: Always be Trustworthy, reliable and caring. Don't expect much out of others. There is a saying " Friends in need are friends indeed". So always be there when they are in need and be a good friend. 

Choice: There is a saying " Choose friends wisely".  As you make more and more friends you will realize that some people are easy be with and some are not. Some friendship might be unhealthy to you and might lead you always into trouble. Always know if your friend has a good character or not. Always cherish those frinds who has a good attitude and a good heart. 


Once you choose to be friends after sometime, if its your frinds mistake or not, always stay with your friends.



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