Saturday, July 30

How to mend a relation

Is your relation going to troubled waters and wondering what can be done to fix it. now you know that it is not the end of the relation but you really wish if your relation went back on tracks and your heart says that it wants that love blooming like always. Well there are some things which can be done to mend a relation.

How to mend a relation

* Discussing & Share: make an effort to find some time and then sit and discuss as to what is going wrong and check if you have done anything unpleasing or better you can ask which of your relation does your partner prefer most. There is nothing like a good discussion where both of you can share the common problems in a relation and check the measures that can be taken to have a better relation

* Compromise: It is very important to compromise in a relation after all what's the big deal in just making a small compromise and it can actually create wonders and also can bring more happiness. Sometimes it is the best gift you can give your loving partner. Now it's not only you that compromising and it's also your partner & even though it might be bitter at first over course of time this will become a habit and you will actually love the idea of compromise.

*Control Anger: Yelling & shouting at your partner will only make things worse for both even though it's our tendency to shout if we get anger, but since the other person has a very soft heart for you, it an hurt hem a lot. So learn to control anger and this can help avoid getting your relation go bad.

* Forgiveness: That's is a special character that humans have & the more more forgiveness you have, more better human you'll become. If you remember all the love you shared, do you thing a little forgiveness is equal to those moments.

* Space & Togetherness: Give some space initially, because you will realize the love in you when you both are not together and allow you to feel that emptiness. Then you will realize the importance of being together.  How ever remember one thing "There should be enough distance to miss one but the distance should not be such that one should start learn to live without one"

So in short a little Compromise, Little forgiveness & realizing the amount of love between you will improve things a lot.

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